Sirach 18:18-20

Good News Translation

¹⁸ It is stupid to be unkind and insulting. No one's eyes are going to sparkle at a gift that you resent giving.

Self-examination

¹⁹ Know what you are talking about before you speak, and give attention to your health before you get sick. ²⁰ Examine your conscience before the Lord judges you; then when that time comes, he will forgive you.