Proverbs 18:17-19

New Century Version

¹⁷ The person who tells one side of a story seems right,
    until someone else comes and asks questions.

¹⁸ Throwing lots can settle arguments
    and keep the two sides from fighting.

¹⁹ A brother who has been insulted is harder to win back than a walled city,
    and arguments separate people like the barred gates of a palace.